Some men who suspect their wives are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating wife.

1. After 10 years of marriage she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer named "Antonio."

2. You find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake.

3. You find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties.

4. You come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes.

5. She's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes.

6. The phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up.

7. She starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback.

8. Your wife tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time.

9. She says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say.

10. You are driving in the car together and hear the Eagles song, "Lyin Eyes," and she cringes as she changes the station.

If this sounds like your life, you will need some real evidence. Luckily, this is very easy thanks to today's technology. Visit a nearby electronics store or search the Web for surveillance equipment. From mini cameras the size of pens to phone tap equipment, you can be your own detective.